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Don’t Sell Your Business Yourself Explained

A large share of higher-net-worth individuals built their wealth through business ownership rather than a salary. Research from CEG Worldwide and WealthEngine found that about a third of “middle-class millionaires” own a business or have had a liquidity event from one, a share that rises sharply among high-net-worth and ultra-high-net-worth households. Merrill Lynch has separately estimated that roughly 80 percent of people with at least $5 million in investable assets are former business owners who had a successful exit. If owning a business is a common path to real wealth, selling it well is what actually converts that wealth into something usable, and it’s usually a once-in-a-lifetime transaction.

Why you need an investment banker, not just a good lawyer

Most business owners will sell exactly one business in their life, the one they built. An experienced investment banker has typically been through the process dozens or hundreds of times. They know how to position a company to command the strongest possible price, identify genuinely qualified buyers, and negotiate terms that protect you, including tax considerations that affect what you actually keep. Being excellent at running a business doesn’t automatically make someone skilled at selling one; those are different disciplines, and the fact that you built something valuable doesn’t mean you know how to auction it effectively.

An investment banker’s job typically includes producing an initial valuation so you have realistic expectations, identifying and reaching a pool of qualified buyers, recommending changes that increase your company’s value before you go to market, filtering out unserious buyers, maintaining confidentiality throughout the process, running a competitive process that plays buyers against each other to improve your price, negotiating final terms, and keeping the deal moving toward a clean closing. Most of all, they help you avoid irreversible mistakes in what is likely the largest financial transaction of your life. A full merger and acquisition process typically runs somewhere around six to nine months and requires a substantial time commitment most owners can’t fit around running the business simultaneously.

What can go wrong without one

Consider a business generating a healthy annual EBITDA that sells at a multiple typical for an unrepresented deal, when comparable companies in the same industry, sold through a properly run competitive process, have historically achieved noticeably higher multiples. The difference between those outcomes on a sale price of several million dollars, even after paying a banker’s typical fee of a few percent, can dwarf the fee itself many times over. Skipping professional representation to save a percentage point or two of fees is frequently the more expensive choice, not the cheaper one.

Common objections, and why they usually don’t hold up

“I can sell it myself” underestimates how time-consuming and complex finding, vetting, and negotiating with buyers actually is, and there’s no second attempt if you get the deal wrong. “I don’t want to pay the fee” mirrors the logic of selling a house without a realtor to avoid commission; the time and value a skilled banker adds routinely exceeds the fee. “I’ve already found the buyer” overlooks that the buyer you start with often isn’t the one you end up with, and that a competitive process with multiple interested parties tends to produce a better price and better terms than a single negotiation, even when a buyer approaches you directly.

Preparing years before you actually sell

Buyers pay more for well-run businesses with sustainable cash flow and documented processes, and those qualities don’t appear overnight. Start cleaning up your books, formalizing management practices, and reducing dependence on any single customer well before you plan to sell; a business generating a large share of revenue from one client makes buyers nervous and reduces your multiple. Get a professional valuation early so you know the gap between what your business is worth today and what you’d need to net from a sale to hit your goals, and use that gap to decide whether to grow the business further or take specific steps to increase its multiple.

Decide early whether you want an external sale to a third party or an internal transfer to your management team or employees through a management buyout or employee stock ownership plan; internal transfers often involve seller financing and a longer payout instead of a large cash amount at closing, which spreads your risk and your tax bill differently. If you’re considering passing the business to your children, go in clear-eyed: it typically requires seller financing, and children don’t always share the same passion or aptitude for running the business their parent built, which can strain both the business and the family relationship if it doesn’t work out. Understand the tax treatment specific to your business structure well before closing, since asset sales, stock sales, and how the purchase price gets allocated can meaningfully change your tax liability, and a C corporation in particular can face double taxation on an asset sale that a pass-through entity would not.

The part people don’t plan for

The financial side of a sale gets most of the attention, but the emotional and lifestyle side often catches owners off guard. If you’ve spent decades building a business, it’s part of your identity, and many owners feel unexpectedly lost after the deal closes, without the daily routine, relationships, and problem-solving that structured their lives. Think through what you’ll actually do with your time before you sell, not after, and whether the final number is your only goal or whether protecting employees, staying involved in some capacity, or starting something new afterward matters just as much to you. A sale that nets a great number but leaves you unhappy a year later isn’t the success it looked like on paper.

Educational only, not tax, legal, or investment advice. Check primary sources and speak with a qualified professional before making financial decisions.

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    Jake Claver

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    Jake Claver

    Family office professional working on how substantial holdings are held, structured and passed on. Qualified Family Office Professional. Finance degree, University of North Texas. Board member, Arkansas Blockchain Council. Author of Wealth in Numbers and Infinite Banking for Crypto Investors.